“Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful” – Albert Schweitzer.
Everyone wants to be truly happy, but many people are not on the right path. I always thought happiness would come from success, but I was wrong. Successful people are at the level they are due to their happiness.
You cannot truly be successful without happiness. Take a moment and ask yourself, “What is my true life’s purpose”. If you think deep enough you will find that your true life’s purpose is to become happier.
The reason people want a great career or job is so that they are happy with their work and make good money. People assume that by making more money they will become happier.
I don’t blame people for believing this. As a matter of fact I used to believe it. It wasn’t until I put a lot of research in that I found what really brings out happiness.
Happiness comes from within us. You can have absolutely nothing and be much happier than someone with a lot of “stuff”. The amount of “stuff” you have does not dictate how happy you will be, like I said before happiness is internal and unaffected by external things.
However, I am not telling you to forget about achievements and “stuff”. You can still be happy and have a lot. Your “stuff” just won’t be the source of your happiness.
Below are four tips for reaching happiness.
Decide to be Happy
Your path to happiness will start with the decision to be happier and the willingness to study happiness.
This will involve studying qualities and traits of happy people. What do they do? How do they live? What are ways they deal with their problems? These are only a few of the questions you should ask yourself.
Write your answers down on paper so you can look back on them also, I suggest recording any research you have done. By writing down what you have studied you are not only increasing the chances of remembering it but also gaining a deeper understanding.
Happy people do not get to where they are by luck. They build it for themselves over time. So you too, must create your happiness.
Become a Better Person
Not many people are too eager to start personal development. The reasoning is because it is tedious. You have to make a ton of minor adjustments to your life.
Creating a happy and fulfilled life, is about finding the best way you work. It’s your responsibility to take control of your own being.
You came to this post in seek of the answer for more happiness. My answer is to start by finding your potential and reaching it.
If you truly want happiness, start becoming a better person. You will find, as you better as a person, you become happier.
There are many great ways you can educate yourself in personal development. One of the best and easiest ways is to just read. So I would get your hands on as many books as possible. Other options could be listening to audio books, attending seminars, online courses or watching videos on YouTube.
The more knowledge you have, the more power you have to change. The more you apply your learnt principles the happier you will become.
The road to happiness is not hard, it begins with a choice and ends with a choice. Now go out and better yourself and in turn become a much happier individual.
Set Some Goals
Goals, goals, and goals I love them. Goals are so important in basically everything. Now that you have made the decision to walk the road to happiness, you need some clear goals laid out.
Set your goals to match what you want in the main areas of your life that will contribute to your happiness.
- Career and Success
- Relationships and Love
- Wellness and Personal Development
I believe these to be the main areas in your life that will contribute to your happiness. By building goals for each of these areas you will be doing much more than just working towards a happy life. Whenever you have the option to kill two birds with one stone do it.
Many articles will say the most successful goals are those that meet the SMART criteria, standing for:
I don’t fully agree with this. Goals don’t have to be realistic; they can be anything you want. Think about when someone has invented something completely new and has astonished the world. An example could be when, Guglielmo Marconi invented the wireless telegraph.
The wireless telegraph enabled people to send signals without wires, which was astonishing in that time period and would have been thought as “unrealistic”, if someone said they were going to develop something like this.
What is realistic is always changing daily with new technologies arising. This being said I don’t see the need to set a realistic goal.
However, if you decide to set an unrealistic goal, you will have to work like mad to reach it and really believe in yourself and the goal. Dreams are only attained by hardcore commitment and determination.
I do however, agree with having specific goals that are measurable. A specific goal is a lot easier to attain and will be a lot less time consuming because you know exactly what you want.
Now, with attainability and time I disagree as well since by setting only short term goals, you are limiting yourself in my opinion. For example, when investing it’s a lot better to be patient with your money and keep your investments for around ten year periods to minimize risk overtime. Normally, if you’re a short term investor or trader you will lose a lot of money at some point. The same thing goes for attainable goal as for a realistic goal, if you work like mad for a seemingly unattainable goal, you may reach it.
With this being said, you can follow the SMART goal theory if you want but it may limit you to small scale goals and you may not reach your potential.
Lastly, once you have your goals review them on a daily bases so you remember and know what your working towards.
Good luck on your goals! Dream BIG! And work like mad!
Follow your Passion
Your morning routine sets the tone for the rest of the day. It is not a good sign if you are waking up in the morning dreading to go to work. On the other hand if you are passionate about what you do, chances are you will wake up happily and the tone of your day will great and fulfilling. Remember you came to this article to find happiness not money. So if you have to go back to school and pay some money don’t worry about it. Do you want money? Or happiness?
Now think about the whole day. If you are not passionate about what you are doing, you will have a very draining experience while working. There will always be good and bad days but when you have a passionate job the majority will be enjoyable.
If you don’t set passion as one of your top values, you’re going to live in a cycle of misery. On top of that, if you are doing something you hate every day, or week for that matter, you will start to hate it more and more over time which will not only be horrible for you but also your co-workers because of your attitude.
If you find something you are super passionate about as a job, you may be able to call it a hobby that pays. When you wake up you will be excited to work and nothing will stop you from getting work done.
My favorite part of finding a passionate job, that you can go places with, is not only the end result is enjoyable but the whole journey is a fun and exciting.