Success

Never Ever Give Up

People will give up for many reasons. Normally, people will give up when something begins to be tough or long. Many, many people will give up when they fail. They don’t acknowledge that failure is inevitable and helps us grow.

There will be times when you will want to give up. However, this is never the right thing to do and will not make you feel better. Instead, pinpoint the reasons you want to give up. You can always find a way to overcome your obstacles and push through the bad times.

As a matter of fact I almost gave up on this blog. I started struggling to think up post ideas. This resulted in a lack of blog posts being published. Over time I started to not post regularly and my motivation started to deplete. Because I was no longer motivated I completely stopped writing.

Deep down I knew I shouldn’t just give up. So here I am again writing posts.

How did I get back to writing? For one I focused heavily on the reason I started blogging in the first place. There’s no way to be motivated if you don’t have a purpose. On top of this I pinpointed why I gave up and found a way to battle it.

As stated before, I gave up because I wasn’t able to think of enough blog ideas to fit my schedule, and this demotivated me. I felt I was failing because I was not able to follow my routine.

The solution to this problem was so simple but I could not accept it until now. All I had to do was slow down on the amount of posts I published per week. Instead of writing three per week I could have written, one or two. This way I wouldn’t have ran out of ideas and lost my motivation.

Below are some things you may want to think about before you decide to give up.

 

Mistakes Can Teach Us

Failing is not a bad thing at all. Even if you fail at something you can try it many other ways and succeed. Think about how you learned math and got better at it. You failed many times. You could not get to the solution so you tried again in a different way until you found the correct pathway to the answer.

Remember this, the only time you fail is when are satisfied with failure. Again think about math. Let\s say you are working on a problem and get to a solution but later find it is incorrect. You can give up and accept failure or you can keep retrying. Decide to keep trying and trying and suddenly you will end up with the correct solution. You have not failed but have gotten one hundred percent success in finding the solution.

Every time you fail, you are one step closer to succeeding because every time you screw up you learn.

 

Time and Effort

I want you to really think about the value of your time before you give up anything. As time is one of the most valuable things you will ever have. It is the reason for your whole existence.

Time is not something you can create but you can throw it away. Keep this in mind. There is also no way to know how much time you have. That makes it very valuable and you don’t want to waste it away.

Instead of focusing on the reasons you want to give up and the struggles you may be going through, look back at all the time and effort you have previously put into whatever you may be trying to accomplish.

Giving up is like throwing time right out the door.

I don’t suggest making this mistake. Later on you will look back and be full with regret.

Use this idea of throwing time away to keep you motivated. As it will give you a purpose to keep going, which could really help if the reason you are giving up is because of a lack of purpose.

 

Pride

Have you ever felt proud of yourself. Ask yourself why? You overcame a challenge in life or reached a goal. Now, what are you most proud of? This would be a moment when you put tons of effort into something and reached your goal.

Pride, is definitely a reason to stay motivated and not give up. However, don’t mix up pride with arrogance. They are completely different. With pride comes confidence, which can lead to happiness and many other great benefits like good relationships etc.

You are in a way lucky that you have a feeling of giving up. It means you are struggling through something and when you have overcome it you will have a sense of pride.

Are you proud of yourself when you hop in the shower? No, not at all. Do you know why? Because it is easy and fun.

A memory is formed by overcoming a struggle. Over time you will look back on that struggle and you will be filled with joy.

 

Life’s Not Always Easy

If you want to succeed you need to accept life is not going to be great all the time. Success is tied to long-term determination and if you want to succeed you must keep moving forward and trying new things.

Giving up is the exact opposite. It doesn’t matter how hard something is. There is always a solution. It’s just not always easy to find at first.

You get out of life what you put in. This being said, the more effort you put in to overcome your problems, the better your life will be.

 

Thanks for reading this post! I hope I gave you some helpful information. If you have the time, please consider leaving some feedback or a comment. 

Cheers

 

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Three Tips for a Better Sleep

Many of us don’t get the quality of sleep we need. We end up feeling grumpy and groggy. Furthermore, our brain doesn’t function as well as it could. When our brain is not functioning well, there is no way we can work at our best.

 

How you feel throughout the day often is based on how well you sleep. Healthy sleep habits can make a big difference in the quality of our life.

 

Build a sleep schedule

 

A regular sleep routine keeps your biological clock steady so you sleep better. Out of all the sleep tips out there, this is the one to make sure you incorporate in your life.

 

Pick a bedtime and wake-up time and stick to them as much as you can. Life will definitely interfere from time to time, but try not to veer too much off of your routine.

 

It will take time and commitment to adapt to your knew sleep routine. I suggest going to bed fifteen minutes earlier than you normally have until you have reached your set bedtime.

 

Meditate

 

Do you crawl into bed with worries? From past experiences you know your mind’s constant thinking keeps you up and destroys your sleep. Thus, ruining the next day.

 

Luckily! There is a solution to this. And it is meditation. Mindfulness meditation involves focusing on your breathing and bringing your mind to the present. This helps reduce all those thoughts racing through your mind or any stresses you may have. By meditating you will find your self in a very worry-free and relaxed state of living.

 

I suggest you meditate for around twenty minutes. It is totally up to you however and you will benefit from any amount of meditation. Meditation is a practice, so I urge you to make meditation part of your daily routine.

 

Go to bed with a sleep-inducing scent

 

Many sleep-inducing scents have a sedative effect on the body which is both relaxing and calming, thus helping you fall asleep better.

 

Here are five great Scents for helping you fall asleep:

  • Lavender: Lavender has been recognized as an effective scent to help you fall asleep. It has long been the most popular soothing fragrance. It has been used in soaps to perfume’s.
  • Chamomile: Chamomile is most notably known for it’s ability to reduce stress and relax the mind. It is found in many teas and essential oils.
  • Jasmine: Research has confirmed the long time belief that jasmine oil is a powerful relaxant. The aroma of jasmine is has a pleasing and uplifting effect and actively fights depression.
  • Sandalwood: Sandalwood is both a relaxant and sedative. It relaxes nerves, muscles and blood vessels. Over the centuries sandalwood has reserved a place of respect in many civilization’s and religions around the world.
  • Rose: Just a sniff of rose pedal is thought to soothe the nerves and calm the body. Rose can act as a tonic to relieve symptoms of depression.
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Six Things You Should Do To Increase Your Sharpness

Challenge your Brain

Your brain is a muscle, so keeping it in good shape, requires using it. In order to maintain your memory, cognition, recall and problem-solving skills you will have to make sure you’re challenging your brain in new ways for your entire life.

Scientists have found, that challenging the brain in new ways helps create new brain cells and strengthen the connections between them.

As you participate in higher levels of mental activity, your brain functions become much better and your risk for cognitive decline lowers. In addition, your likelihood of getting dementia decreases.  

I suggest trying a new activity you have wanted to do for awhile. Some examples you could try are, learning a new language, learning to program computers or even learning to draw. There are all sorts of fun activities to explore.

 

Get Enough Sleep

Sleep plays a vital role in good health and well-being throughout your life. Sleep helps your brain work properly and prepares it for the next day.

While you sleep your brain is processing all the information from your day. Sleep takes the memories from your day and stabilizes, copies and filters them to help prioritize their importance and usefulness for future reference. 

The recommended amount of sleep for adults is between 7 and 8 hours per night. However, the amount of sleep you need depends on many factors. For some a good nights sleep in 4 hours and for others 9 hours.

I would test out different duration’s of sleep and find the period, where you feel rested and sharp and ready to take on the day.

I should mention, in order to maintain a good night’s sleep, you need to set a consistent bedtime routine. This ensures your sleep cycles are not disrupted.

 

Create Healthy Habits

Smoking and drinking cause harm to the brain. Both separately, and together.

Alcohol affects the parts of your brain that control judgment, concentration, coordination, behavior and emotions. Your sharpness is based on all of this! And alcohol’s effects are not positive, but negative.

Long-term drinking can result in permanent brain damage, serious mental health problems and alcohol dependency; especially for the young person. Excessive drinking can also disrupt your sleep patterns.

Cigarette smoking, has really negative effects on your brain as well. It is a cause of a stroke which is, damage to the brain due to problems with blood flow or the escape of blood into the brain. 40% of all strokes in people under 65 are caused by cigarette smoking.

A common myth, is that smoking helps concentration and makes a smoker alert. This is far from the truth. Don’t fall for it! Smoking will lower your IQ and your thinking ability becomes weak.

If you want to maintain a sharp brain, alcohol and smoking are not the route to take. I would suggest finding an alternative.

I have mentioned, smoking and alcohol because they are the two most common unhealthy habits, people will develop throughout their lifetime.

Here are 5 healthy habits you can apply in your life:

  1. Drink lots and lots of water.
  2. Eat at least one really healthy meal each day.
  3. Exercise.
  4. Snack on fruit or veggies.
  5. Get outdoors.

 

Meditate

I have mentioned, meditation already in many past articles. This is because it is one of the best thing’s you can do for your well-being.

Studies, have found that meditation is associated with a stronger ability to control your behavior and emotions. One study, published by the journal NeuroImage, UCLA neuroscientist Eileen Luders, found that, the brains of meditators had two brain regions that were larger than non-meditators.

Here are six ways mediation increases your intelligence:

  1. Balances your left and right brain.
  2. Increases brain size.
  3. Enables beneficial brainwave patterns.
  4. Boosts insight and intuition.
  5. Improves short and long term memory.

 

Make a Habit of Napping

Taking a nap improves brain activation and improves your memory, alertness and creativity. Many smart, energetic and creative people use power naps to keep their energy mood, and productivity high throughout their day.

A power nap is a short period of rest; around 15 to 20 minutes. Having one of these, should leave you mentally clear and sharp. The amazing thing about a power nap, is that it allows you to boost your productivity for the whole day in a very short time period.

A few proven benefits from napping

  • Combats exhaustion.
  • Increases brain activity.
  • Helps brain recovery.
  • Reduces stress.
  • Increases happiness.
  • Gives brain a quick boost in it’s functions.

 

Exercise

Exercising, is a fantastic way to boost your brain power. Your brain will benefit from any amount of exercise you do. Even five minutes of exercise can improve your brain’s performance.

Cardio, is one of the best ways to boost your brain power. All the extra blood surrounds your brain cells in oxygen and glucose. And both of these are what fuel your brain cells. The more your brain cells are fueled, the better they will perform. So the more cardio exercise you do, the more powerful your brain becomes.

If you exercise, regularly you are priming your brain for growth. All the rushing blood going through you, accelerates the growth rate of the brain.

You will gain more than just increased brain performance by exercising. Your depression will alleviate, you will experience memory improvement’s, stress decrease and you will be more focused. On top of this, you will be a happier and more confident person.

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Improve Your Day With a Morning Ritual

How many times do you wake up feeling terrible in the morning? All the time is my bet. The reason you are feeling this way in the morning is because you have not built a good morning ritual or routine. Morning rituals will contribute heavily to how you feel when you wake up, as well as how the rest of your day will go. You will have a sense of purpose to get out of bed and be energized to do so. And most importantly you will have a fantastic day! Full of joy.

 

There is no certain routine you should go by. Instead you must experiment over time and find what works for you. How much sleep do you need? How much caffeine? Or do you not need caffeine at all? What activities will you do? It will definitely take time to find your perfect routine, but will be well worth the wait.

 

My Morning Routine:

 

1.       Smile

The first thing I do when I wake up in the morning is smile. Smiling will not only help get you out of bed but also remind you to be grateful for your life. By smiling you’re actually changing your mental stat thus creating a great start to the morning.

 

 

2.       Drink Water

Next, I drink water and LOTS of it. I drink at least two large glasses of water. Why drink so much water? The reason for drinking so much is because throughout the night your body becomes severely dehydrated.  And dehydration drastically affects our mood and energy level.

 

 

3.       Cold Shower

If you want to boost your alertness and really wake yourself up, take a cold shower. A cold shower may seem horrifying, but if you have one daily your body gets used to it. Some of the benefits include increased alertness, improved immunity and circulation, relief from depression and ease of stress. Some great news! You don’t need to give up your warm shower. Just shower in cold water than warm water.

 

 

4.       Meditate

There is no better way to start your morning than meditating. Meditation is so great for your mind; it boosts cognitive functions, builds focus and concentration, relieves stress and even increases grey matter. There are countless other benefits I have not named out there as well. I suggest meditating around twenty minutes in the morning because it doesn’t take much time out of your day.

 

5.       Exercise

Every morning I make sure I do some sort of exercise. I keep it short around twenty minutes because the purpose is to improve my energy levels for the day. Some days I will go for a quick jog or do some body weight exercises.

 

6.       Healthy Meal

Lastly, I have a nutritious meal. Normally, I will have a smoothie with oatmeal or some yogurt and fruit. I find this makes me feel great and boosts my energy in the morning. There are countless healthy breakfast meals you can come up with if you want to start eating healthy in the morning.

 

 

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How to Live a Happy Life

“Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful” – Albert Schweitzer.

 

Everyone wants to be truly happy, but many people are not on the right path. I always thought happiness would come from success, but I was wrong. Successful people are at the level they are due to their happiness.

 

You cannot truly be successful without happiness.  Take a moment and ask yourself, “What is my true life’s purpose”. If you think deep enough you will find that your true life’s purpose is to become happier.

 

The reason people want a great career or job is so that they are happy with their work and make good money. People assume that by making more money they will become happier.

 

I don’t blame people for believing this. As a matter of fact I used to believe it. It wasn’t until I put a lot of research in that I found what really brings out happiness.

 

Happiness comes from within us. You can have absolutely nothing and be much happier than someone with a lot of “stuff”. The amount of “stuff” you have does not dictate how happy you will be, like I said before happiness is internal and unaffected by external things.

 

However, I am not telling you to forget about achievements and “stuff”. You can still be happy and have a lot. Your “stuff” just won’t be the source of your happiness.

 

Below are four tips for reaching happiness.

 

Decide to be Happy

 

Your path to happiness will start with the decision to be happier and the willingness to study happiness.

 

This will involve studying qualities and traits of happy people. What do they do? How do they live? What are ways they deal with their problems? These are only a few of the questions you should ask yourself.

 

Write your answers down on paper so you can look back on them also, I suggest recording any research you have done. By writing down what you have studied you are not only increasing the chances of remembering it but also gaining a deeper understanding.

 

Happy people do not get to where they are by  luck. They build it for themselves over time. So you too,  must create your happiness.

 

Become a Better Person

 

Not many people are too eager to start personal development. The reasoning is because it is tedious. You have to make a ton of minor adjustments to your life.

 

Creating a happy and fulfilled life, is about finding the best way you work. It’s your responsibility to take control of your own being.

 

You came to this post in seek of the answer for more happiness. My answer is to start by finding your potential and reaching it.

 

If you truly want happiness, start becoming a better person. You will find, as you better as a person, you become happier.

 

There are many great ways you can educate yourself in personal development. One of the best and easiest ways is to just read. So I would get your hands on as many books as possible. Other options could be listening to audio books, attending seminars, online courses or  watching videos on YouTube.

 

The more knowledge you have, the more power you have to change. The more you apply your learnt principles the happier you will become.

 

The road to happiness is not hard,  it begins with a choice and ends with a choice. Now go out and better yourself and in turn become a much happier individual.

 

Set Some Goals

 

Goals, goals, and goals I love them.  Goals are so important in basically everything. Now that you have made the decision to walk the road to happiness, you need some clear goals laid out.

 

Set your goals to match what you want in the main areas of your life that will contribute to your happiness.

 

Main areas:

  • Health
  • Career and Success
  • Relationships and Love
  • Wellness and Personal Development

 

I believe these to be the main areas in your life that will contribute to your happiness. By building goals for each of these areas you will be doing much more than just working towards a happy life. Whenever you have the option to kill two birds with one stone do it.

 

Many articles will say the most successful goals are those that meet the SMART criteria, standing for:

  • Specific
  • Measurable
  • Attainable
  • Realistic
  • Timely

 

I don’t fully agree with this. Goals don’t have to be realistic; they can be anything you want. Think about when someone has invented something completely new and has astonished the world. An example could be when, Guglielmo Marconi invented the wireless telegraph.

 

The wireless telegraph enabled people to send signals without wires, which was astonishing in that time period and would have been thought as “unrealistic”, if someone said they were going to develop something like this.

 

What is realistic is always changing daily with new technologies arising. This being said I don’t see the need to set a realistic goal.

 

However, if you decide to set an unrealistic goal, you will have to work like mad to reach it and really believe in yourself and the goal. Dreams are only attained by hardcore commitment and determination.

 

I do however, agree with having specific goals that are measurable. A specific goal is a lot easier to attain and will be a lot less time consuming because you know exactly what you want.

 

Now, with attainability and time I disagree as well since by setting only short term goals,  you are limiting yourself in my opinion. For example, when investing it’s a lot better to be patient with your money and keep your investments for around ten year periods to minimize risk overtime. Normally, if you’re a short term investor or trader you will lose a lot of money at some point.  The same thing goes for attainable goal as for a realistic goal, if you work like mad for a seemingly unattainable goal, you may reach it.

 

With this being said, you can follow the SMART goal theory if you want but it may limit you to small scale goals and you may not reach your potential.

 

Lastly, once you have your goals review them on a daily bases so you remember and know what your working towards.

 

Good luck on your goals! Dream BIG! And work like mad!

 

 Follow your Passion

 

Your morning routine sets the tone for the rest of the day. It is not a good sign if you are waking up in the morning dreading to go to work. On the other hand if you are passionate about what you do, chances are you will wake up happily and the tone of your day will great and fulfilling. Remember you came to this article to find happiness not money. So if you have to go back to school and pay some money don’t worry about it. Do you want money?  Or happiness?

 

Now think about the whole day. If you are not passionate about what you are doing, you will have a very draining experience while working. There will always be good and bad days but when you have a passionate job the majority will be enjoyable.

 

If you don’t set passion as one of your top values, you’re going to live in a cycle of misery. On top of that, if you are doing something you hate every day, or week for that matter, you will start to hate it more and more over time which will not only be horrible for you but also your co-workers because of your attitude.

 

If you find something you are super passionate about as a job, you may be able to call it a hobby that pays.  When you wake up you will be excited to work and nothing will stop you from getting work done.

 

My favorite part of finding a passionate job, that you can go places with,  is not only the end result is enjoyable but the whole journey is a fun and exciting.

 

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